Intuitive or Irrational

 

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intuition

ɪntjʊˈɪʃ(ə)n/

noun

noun: intuition

  1. 1.

the ability to understand something instinctively, without the need for conscious reasoning.

“we shall allow our intuition to guide us”

 

 

irrational

Use Irrational in a sentence

ir·ra·tion·al

[ih-rash-uh-nl] Show IPA

adjective

1.

without the faculty of reason; deprived of reason.

2.

without or deprived of normal mental clarity or sound judgment.

3.

not in accordance with reason; utterly illogical: irrational arguments.

4.

not endowed with the faculty of reason: irrational animals.

 

Often we are told to listen to our intuition as a guide because it is the one thing that won’t steer us wrong.

ABC’s Scandal with Kerry Washington as its leading character Olivia Pope has an overarching theme of intuition with Pope known for listening to and trusting ‘her gut’ because her ‘gut is never wrong’.

 

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Thing is, at what point does it stop being intuition and start being irrationality, jealousy or down-right insanity.

 

One of social media Whatsapp’s defining characteristics is its “Last Seen” option that lets you know when last someone was on their Whatsapp. Many a relationship has fallen victim of this feature with girlfriends (and boyfriends) hounding their partners for answers as to why they were on Whatsapp until 2am when they had said good night to them at 10pm – yikes. These women then foster possible reasons as to why this may be the case with infidelity almost always being the only reason that makes sense to them. This is then accredited to intuition confirmed by the ‘last seen’ on Whatsapp.

A lot of times when it comes to cheating in a relationship, women are often heard saying “You always know your man is cheating before you find proof, you’ll feel it in your gut – you’ll just know”.

While this has proven true a number of times, there are those times when it hasn’t been true – in this case, was the intuition wrong or was the woman insecure to some extent and as a result irrationally conjured up a scenario that made her feel better about her insecurities because for some reason it is easier to deal with the dragon of cheating than it is to admit “I’m scared I’m going to lose my man because I just don’t feel good enough for him”.

Essentially the point here is that while intuition is a guide of sorts, there are instances when it verges into the irrational and is used for a scapegoat for deeper issues. But then again, there are instances when  it really is intuition and it should be listened to.

 

So, how do you know? How do you know when your intuition is serving you or when you’ve fooled yourself into thinking its intuition when it’s just irrationality? What if you ignore what you’re feeling as irrational but find out much later that you were right and you should’ve been Olivia Popesque and listened? But then again, what if you are wrong and end up unnecessarily damaging trust within your relationship?

 

I suppose this is one of those catch 22 situations where you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Urgh.

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